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Friday, July 2, 2010
Quiting his diapers
Hong Zheng quits his diaper during his nap and is also slowly quitting his diaper at night. He does not wake up for wee at midnight. Possible? Maybe he sleeps late lately. Maybe he drinks less water lately. Maybe his kidney able to keep more water? One thing for sure, he does not drink much plain water.
How to juggle family and career?
I love my son but i need to work too. How can i handle them? I am trying each day hoping i can make the situation gets better.
At the beginning, i woke up at 6:30am to cook lunch and dinner before i leave to work. I stop doing it after Hong Zheng claim stomach ache. I start to cater for food caterer. Still dont work. I am looking for nanny. Still dont work? What should i do? I am tiring.
Tell me what should i do? I am totally exhausted!
At the beginning, i woke up at 6:30am to cook lunch and dinner before i leave to work. I stop doing it after Hong Zheng claim stomach ache. I start to cater for food caterer. Still dont work. I am looking for nanny. Still dont work? What should i do? I am tiring.
Tell me what should i do? I am totally exhausted!
Stomach ache
Last two weeks, Hong Zheng started to claim he has stomach ache. It is worst during mid night when he got up half way sleep and claim pain. At least 6-7 times throughout the night.
Brought him to see doctor, the whole hospital can know us as Hong Zheng can make the whole hospital so "huha". He was so phobia to see doctor after the incident of Influenza A.
His dad never follow the proper medication time so it drags him up to 5 days. I took unpaid leave and look after him. After a day, he is fully recovered. No more stomach ache, no more fever.
From our observation, Hong Zheng actually has kind of stomach gastric where by it is worsen off during the meal time. That implies, irregular feeding hour. Off course, his dad wont feed him at the good timing.
Can i still keep him with his dad? I cannot.
Brought him to see doctor, the whole hospital can know us as Hong Zheng can make the whole hospital so "huha". He was so phobia to see doctor after the incident of Influenza A.
His dad never follow the proper medication time so it drags him up to 5 days. I took unpaid leave and look after him. After a day, he is fully recovered. No more stomach ache, no more fever.
From our observation, Hong Zheng actually has kind of stomach gastric where by it is worsen off during the meal time. That implies, irregular feeding hour. Off course, his dad wont feed him at the good timing.
Can i still keep him with his dad? I cannot.
I am so sorry
Looking back to my old blogs, it has been idling for the past two months.
Just two months, so much things change....
Hong Zheng claimed stomach ache afew ago.
We cater for dinner during weekdays.
Hong Zheng follows his dad to computer shop.
I am reactivated as a career yet tired woman...
Today, what i had done? I visited Hong Zheng's soon to be baby sitter.
Hong Zheng dad claimed he cannot handle Hong Zheng and do his business at the same time.
I am terrifyingly sad! so sad that i cannot describe anymore.
Why i just cannot have a happy family who does not worry about all this? Why cant i give more precious time with my son? Since i have to work to support my hubby's ambitious, since i have to work to support the family while he is adventuring, why cant i give a happy childhood with my son while he still so attach to us?? Why? I can say nothing but two words " faith", "destiny".
Hong Zheng, mummy is sorry to you because that is all i can give it to you..I am so sorry.
Just two months, so much things change....
Hong Zheng claimed stomach ache afew ago.
We cater for dinner during weekdays.
Hong Zheng follows his dad to computer shop.
I am reactivated as a career yet tired woman...
Today, what i had done? I visited Hong Zheng's soon to be baby sitter.
Hong Zheng dad claimed he cannot handle Hong Zheng and do his business at the same time.
I am terrifyingly sad! so sad that i cannot describe anymore.
Why i just cannot have a happy family who does not worry about all this? Why cant i give more precious time with my son? Since i have to work to support my hubby's ambitious, since i have to work to support the family while he is adventuring, why cant i give a happy childhood with my son while he still so attach to us?? Why? I can say nothing but two words " faith", "destiny".
Hong Zheng, mummy is sorry to you because that is all i can give it to you..I am so sorry.
Thursday, May 13, 2010
Busy and busy
Left half month i will have to drop my SAHM title and become a career woman. I am going to hold a section manager post in a MNC company. Life will be so much different. It is a hard decision which took me and my hubby two weeks to make such decision.
As for Hong Zheng's dad, he already resigned his current job and starting his new adventure operating a computer services business in our neighbourhood.
How about Hong Zheng? We decided to keep Hong Zheng with his dad for the coming six months in his computer shop. If Hong Zheng able to coorperate well, we will send him for half day kindi next year. We will have to send him for full day kindi if his dad cannot handle him and his business concurrently. I definitelly wish Hong Zheng can stay with his dad as i fully believe he can continue to learn and explore together with his dad. Hopefully he can turn up become a cooperative boy. I deeply hope so.
Food wise, i plan to cook rice for them before leaving for work. Meanwhile also get ready some fresh fish and vegetables so that his dad can steam and eat for thier lunch. As for dinner, i will try to cook after work if possible else we will have to eat out for the time being. I think this is the best arrangement i can make.
Too much negative comment about catering food so i decided to drop searching for catering.
Life is gonna to be a big big change and i deeply wish my little boy can give us 100% coorperation. Will know very soon.
So, i am currently busy getting all the vendors in for the shop partition, electricity and furniture. Going to have a BIG WASH tomorrow morning.
Busy but contented!
As for Hong Zheng's dad, he already resigned his current job and starting his new adventure operating a computer services business in our neighbourhood.
How about Hong Zheng? We decided to keep Hong Zheng with his dad for the coming six months in his computer shop. If Hong Zheng able to coorperate well, we will send him for half day kindi next year. We will have to send him for full day kindi if his dad cannot handle him and his business concurrently. I definitelly wish Hong Zheng can stay with his dad as i fully believe he can continue to learn and explore together with his dad. Hopefully he can turn up become a cooperative boy. I deeply hope so.
Food wise, i plan to cook rice for them before leaving for work. Meanwhile also get ready some fresh fish and vegetables so that his dad can steam and eat for thier lunch. As for dinner, i will try to cook after work if possible else we will have to eat out for the time being. I think this is the best arrangement i can make.
Too much negative comment about catering food so i decided to drop searching for catering.
Life is gonna to be a big big change and i deeply wish my little boy can give us 100% coorperation. Will know very soon.
So, i am currently busy getting all the vendors in for the shop partition, electricity and furniture. Going to have a BIG WASH tomorrow morning.
Busy but contented!
My birthday
I baked a strawberry cheese for my birthday cake. We celebrated in the early morning so that we can eat it as breakfast. Haha, we were all still in pajamas. I think this family photo could not be found else where but i personally like it very much. It was my 35th birthday.
Exercise
I bought a book about how to train our child physically fit. A few poses which i think it is safe we do together with Hong Zheng. It was fun but we are still abit cautions so we do not do it very often but he likes it!
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